People like this are rude and disgusting. Am I judgemental? Yes. It is ridiculous to behave in such a manner. And it is just plain silly to say we do not know all the details. These two need to grow up. Am I happy for them? No. I am saddened for the unborn child of these two incredibly self-absorbed individuals. And I am scared for his ex who has to put up with this man parading his low-morals around thier children. As for the other woman? She should have kept her legs closed. She is an idiot and will get what she deserves- a permanent tie to this immature grown man.

So Heidi would be comparable to this guy’s wife – the one who was cheated on. And Flavio’s mistress would be comparable to Kristy. Neither Seal nor Heidi ruined a marriage. Lloyd and Kristy did.

Actually I recall reading that when Heidi was pregnant with Leni, the father Flavio Briatore was caught by the papparazzi with another woman. She found out from the media and fortunately for her also found Seal’s shoulder to cry on.

The difference between Heidi and Kristy is that Heidi didn’t have an affair with a married man. Seal didn’t have a pregnant wife and toddler at home.

On one hand, it’s no different than Heidi Klum who had 2 kids with 2 different men within 16 months. She left her long-time live-in boyfriend/common-law husband when she was pregnant with Leni, hooked up with Seal within a short time, and was pregnant again with Seal’s child before Leni turned 7 months old.

Lloyd & his wife had been separated for awhile, and tried to reconcile to give it one last go. It’s not like they had a really happy marriage to begin with, KWIM? Maybe they should’ve considered that before having another child so close in age to the first. If a marriage is already in trouble, a new baby rarely solves any problems.

I actually do stand by my comment. And I can back it with this simple thought:

How do you think the existing kids feel? What do you think it does to their sense of self-worth and security? They watch dad (or mom, as the case may be) raise their OTHER kids, but they only get to visit?

I’ve seen it countless times: The kids from the first marriage feel like second class citizens with their own parents. The parents remarry, and make kids with their new spouses. So then the older kids know that the “new” babies are products of who their parents REALLY want to be with, not with that “ex” who they don’t want anymore. How could a child NOT feel inferior?

Kids don’t ask to be born, so it’s a parent’s obligation and responsibility to not make selfish choices that would ultimately hurt their kids. That’s all I’m saying.

How, exactly, is choosing to not hurt your children ridiculous?

This reminded many of Shar, Kevin and Britney. Reminded me of Angelina Jolie, Brad Pitt and Jennifer Aniston (with a few differences)!

Kristy is a homewrecker and I’m NOT happy for them. This site shouldn’t even mention them.

I don’t know, Beccalovesbabies – you seem to be suggesting that any man or woman who has another child/children after suffering a relationship breakdown and not having the first child/children live with them is being “cruel” to their first child?!

Relationships break down all the time. For someone to not have another child with a new partner because their existing children don’t live with them and might only “visit” with him/her is pretty ridiculous. As is the idea that it is cruel to have more children.

You might want to re-think that comment – it’s pretty harsh.

Thank you Tink….judge not lest you be judged.