I know I’m late to this party, but Grace, you go girl! You wrote everything I was thinking after reading Tanya’s comment. Bless you for your wisdom!

In the last few years I have been spending a lot of time on my computer business and for relief I have been reading about celebriies, especially Angelina and her life.I have watched this special woman evolve from a wild self interested person into a lady of grace and supreme generosity.We should all be inspired by what she does with her life.I have been humbled by what she and Brad Pitt do regarding charity work and adopting children.I don’t understand why anyone would think differently.

Tanya: Angelina was not the one who referred to Shiloh as a “blob” that was the person doing the interview. And I notice that Gwen Stefani referred to her child the same way and there was no outcry over that. And she never said, “It’s easier to love the adopted ones because they weren’t born privelged.” Angelina and Brad have said repeatedly that they love all their kids equally.

“I don’t understand why they need a whole soccer team of children.” – Everyone has to find the number of children that work best for them. Just because it’s not the number that would work for you does not mean they can’t handle it. Some people are just better at handling a lot of kids than others.

Well, what I`m saying is simply that Brad and Angelina need to slow down, and enjoy the kids they`ve got for a couple of years now, before adding another adopted or biological child to their brood. I don`t understand why they need a whole soccer team of children. Four kids would be more than enough kids to handle for most parents.
About Shiloh: I feel she`s often neglected by her mother. Angelina talk highly of adoption and adopt one child after another, but Shiloh is described as a “Blob” and it`s so much easier for her to love the adopted ones because they weren`t born so “Privileged”. It`s like Angie is running from painfull memories, thinking adopting kids are the only solution to heal her wounds.

Well said, Grace!

Tanya: How does having another biological child make Shiloh any less special? All children are special, whether they are adopted or biological. And just because they have adopted several times does not automatically mean they are focused on adoption to the exclusion of Shiloh.

And I’m not sure what your point is in saying that “Shiloh will just be one of the crowd.” Why exactly do you think that Shiloh should be singled out as the only biological child. Parents don’t love their children because that child is the youngest or the only girl or the only biolgical child. It’s possible to love all your kids the same, regardless of where they came from or what order they fall in the family.

I really wish people would use more sensitivity when discussing biological vs. adopted children. It doesn’t have to be an either/or thing and it doesn’t have to be a contest over who is more special.

Well having another bio child now..it will make Shiloh less special. And thats the only thing she`s got going for her in this adoptive focused family. The thing that makes her a bit special, at least for her daddy is that she`s the only bio child and shes the baby. What happens if they have two more children in a year: Shiloh will no longer be the newest or smallest in age or the only bio child. She will just be one in the crowd.. I would love for her to have a bio sibling and new adopted sibling in a few years,but I think the child expanding family should stop for now, be happy and love the four children they`ve already got! Having children is not a collecting game,where the more kids the merrier family,it`s a lifelong responsibility. And Hollywood couples seldom last forever. When they after several years and maybe 10 kids break up, what will happen to the kids then? They`ll end up in a long and hurtfull custody battle..

that would be cool if she has another bio child or a adopted child either way is a great way to have a child. I think all the kids will fit right in either way.

I hope they have anther bio child, it would be nice for Shiloh because all the other kids are adopted. Might be nice for her to have someone to relate too.

I do hope they have another biological child. I think it might help take the media pressure off of Shiloh.