I think they have acknowledged that they were having problems before Britney was in the picture, but he was still not honest with Shar. It is big of her to forgive but it never helps to stay angry and she seems to understand that. It’s just the right thing for her to do, to put the kids first.

Thanks for the correction tink… I actually knew that, not sure why I said “wife” I was even careful to put “relationship” in the rest of my response.

she has 4 kids by 2 different guys and never married, i don’t think britney needs her advice. and though she never bad mouths kevin, she isn’t very nice when talking about britney.

Rachel, Kevin and Shar were not married.

Good on Shar. I also have been impressed with her handling of this situation. I only hope that Britney can pull it together and all the kids will be alright with their parents.

I believe that Shar has said before that she and Kevin were having problems long before he left her, that their relationship was never meant to be and that the split has always been amicable… so perhaps the picture the media painted of the Kevin Federline that just up and left his pregnant wife is not quite how it went. It seems that he’s always been there for his children and I think that is what matters. I think there are so many circumstances where staying in a relationship just for the kids leads to major problems.

That said I think what they are doing is wonderful. I love that they want to keep their children together and that they do have that amicable relationship. Those 2 little guys definitely need something stable in their lives. I would love to see photos of all of them, but Kevin respectfully does not drag them out in public very often.

Wonder why we never see pictures of all 4 kids together? I’d bet they’d be cute!

I really like the fact that she is a great mother, friend and never had a problem with her children being around Britney when Kevin had left her. Shar indeed is a very mature lady and people can learn a lot from behind her situation, her children will thank her if not now but when they get older too.

I’m also really impressed by how mature and responsible Shar has been through the entire ordeal with Kevin. She never once badmouthed him, she has always maintained that he was a good parent. Very classy. The fact that Shar and Kevin have maintained such a nice relationship makes me question whether the problem in Britney and Kevin’s inability to co-parent is Britney, and not Kevin. He clearly is able to be mature and put personal issues aside with Shar.

I think that it is wonderful that they can be friends for the sake of their children and all get along. I know a lot of people can’t be civil to each other. My SIL got a divorce a couple of years ago and it is terrible to be around her she is constantly bad mouthing her ex and in front of her children it is not a good time when she is around.