Singer Trisha Yearwood considers herself a “bonus mom”
Trisha Yearwood knew that when she married fellow country singer Garth Brooks, 46, that there would be changes to her life. One that the 43-year-old didn’t count on was how becoming a mother to Garth’s daughters Taylor Mayne Pearl, 15 ½, August Anna, 14, and Allie Colleen, 11 ½, would impact her.
I guess I realized for the first time as an adult the sacrifice thatparents make for their kids. I really had to learn thatit’s not all about me. And I’d love to say that I knew that before,but, you know, I’m still struggling with it. When you don’t havechildren, you can be selfish, and when you do have children — whetheryou birthed them yourself or whether you have them by marriage — youcan’t be first. They have to be first.
And while Trisha is still adjusting to being a mother, one thing she knows for a fact is that she doesn’t like the term stepmom.
I call it bonus mom. Stepmom evokes Cinderella stories in my head, so I like bonus mom.Jada Pinkett Smith taught me that one. I was somewhere talkin’ aboutit. I said, ‘I’m looking for a better word,’ and she says, ‘Bonus mom.’I’m a bonus mom. That’s better. It just changes everything.
Source: GAC TV; Photo by Jean-Paul Aussenard/WireImage.com.
- Posted on May 7, 08 at 11:12AM
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May 7th, 2008 at 12:55 pm
No kidding! Thanks to that Cinderella story, the term stepmom always sounds like it’s something bad. The situation of being a stepmom is already not easy to handle, who needs a story to make it worse?
May 7th, 2008 at 4:45 pm
I like that, bonus mom. It has a more positive connotation.
May 8th, 2008 at 12:23 am
I think Jada may have picked that one up from the book EX-ETIQUETTE FOR PARENTS by Jann Blackstone-Ford and Sharyl Jupe (forgive me if I am slightly wrong on the names, going off memory)
GREAT book on co-parenting. For both the bonus mom/dad and the birth mom/dad. I really learned a lot from it.
Either way though I agree about stepmom, it does ring evil… It is really good to see families putting the best interest and happiness of the kids first!
May 10th, 2008 at 7:28 am
I deplore the use of “half, step, foster, adopted” anything. My siblings are my siblings even if we weren’t all born of the same parents. I love Trisha & Garth, and I love “bonus mom.”
July 18th, 2008 at 9:52 pm
Being a mom is special. Glad to see that Trish and Garth have made it and are together. Benigna Marko has followed the couple’s love story from the beginning Including her admiration for first wife who has stood by their decision including living on the same land. More important are the girls. Benigna Marko
July 20th, 2008 at 5:19 pm
I’m glad Trisha isn’t having any kids of her own. Garths kids don’t need a Bonus Mom they already have a good mom in Sandy Brooks!!
August 25th, 2008 at 2:47 pm
Bonus mom what a beautiful way to share the girls with her hubby. Bonus mom is a beautiful way to share Garth’s love for h is kids.
Benigna Marko