To: J,

It’s true. It does take “two to tango,” but from my experience… people (both men and women) are more quick to judge females about this kind of thing than their male counterparts. They’ll say things like “She’s a s!ut.” or “She’s a w#ore.” or “(She) should have known better and shouldn’t have sex.” Men can get away with screwing 1/3 of the country and then patted on the back for it (i.e. Gene Simmons) By the way, yes.. men are called “dogs” when they sleep around but that doesn’t have the same hateful sting of being called a “s!ut.” It’s like calling a white person a “cracker” and then calling a black person the “N” word. Obviously “cracker” doesn’t sting people as much as the “N” word. It’s the same with men being called names like “dog” while women are called wh0res. Men aren’t hurt by the term “dog” or atleast not any of the ones I’ve met. Women are usually hurt by the term “wh0re” or “s!ut” and if they aren’t… some of them are probably hiding their real feelings. I don’t expect anyone to agree with me, I just wanted to share my thoughts like the rest.

I agree with Molly. It does take two to tango and they both are responsible.

Why are we blaming David on not using protection? Remember the say, “It takes two to tango?” It’s equally Jillian’s fault for not insisting having protection or not even having sex with him. I don’t like it when people just blame the guy for getting a woman pregnant, when the woman is as guilty for not saying no.

None of this would happen if people waited for marriage to have sex and produce children. Then there would be no surprises and no questioning of paternity! It is truly sick to see how society has turned the beautiful act of love into a lustful act of sin.

Wow, good thing this is all just a rumor…

Well said Ana. People are already flipping out and so far we don’t know exact details.

LOL this is the story of my life. I just gave birth to a wonderful little boy. I also turned 22 recently. His father will be 40 in a few days. I knew what I was doing and took immediate responsibility. It was HIM who acted like he didn’t know where babies come from! Luckily he dotes on our boy…now. Things happen, regardless of age, but parents should take responsibility, no ifs, ands, or buts.

It’s always interesting though, when pregnancies are revealed after the breakup.

And besides, let’s be true: a 22 year-old is a woman and knows what she does!

Let me just clarify this: a 40-something year-old having sex with a 22 year-old without protection is as bad as having sex with another 40-something year-old without protection, or a 30-something year-old…and the main risk isn’t pregnancy as we know (I’m alomst 20, so…I have something to say LOL). Plus, we don’t have anything to do with their sex lives! It’s theirs. Who are us to judge. Are we examples? We’re not. We don’t discuss our own sex lives on the internet, and most of us wouldn’t like other people to discuss about ours, either.
And although in their case it was a flirt, I know 40 year-old people who are in love with 20 year-olds and they surely have sex.
So calm down.
As long as the kid is love, who cares about the rest…one thing is certain, it’s no our business.

lol margot! very true =)

Hey guys, at least it’s better than Eddie Murphy’s reaction.