For Everyone on here bashing Tommy for hitting Pam, Number 1: You weren’t there. All you have is bits and pieces of a story that is going to get blown up in a mother’s favor. If you want TWO sides to the story in order to get a more well-rounded, factual account of what happened, go read Tommy’s book Tommy Land which stemmed for that arrest. You read that book and tell me are you still going to automatically be blaming this guy for that one incident that blew out of control so quickly??
We just have to remember that there are two sides to every story and persecuting one person before you’ve ever walked in their shoes is a pretty brazen act.

Before we start persecuting Tommy for what he ’supposedly’ did to get arrested, there are two sides to every story and in those two stories lies different sides of blame.
Pam has pushed a number of books out that everyone is aware of and Tommy put one ‘ out, too: TOMMYLAND. Whether you like the guy or not, you get a better understanding of him as a decent human being that just wants to do right by his wife and children. There were a lot of obstacles in his way. And he’s come through them. We should be celebrating that and not nit-pickin at them for things we wouldn’t necessarily do. They have come a long way in recent months so we should be celebrating two couples making a conscience decision to make a better home life for their kids instead of dropping them off with nannys and tutors to take care of then, ‘GOOD ON TOMMIE AND PAM!!!!!!!!

No disrespect intended, but I love how society loves to criticize gay people when we want to get married… something about protecticng the sanctity of marriage, but see no problem with people like Pamela Anderson ( along with many others)who treat it with such blantant disrespect.

I’m betting that she’ll find herself pregnant within a few months…

This relationship seems far too toxic and I fear for their children, having to go through this multiple times because their parents can’t pull it together and mature is incredibly unfair. It’s not a game and Pam and Tommy are certainly not teenagers. It would be great if they were seriously committed to making things happen and sought some sort of help, like couples therapy and some anger management for Tommy. Either fully commit to being together or completely step away from the situation.

I just hope that the children fair well in all of this, one way or the other.

None of us know them personally. Things could change, people change. I wish them the best and hope for the best, I feel for the kids if they don’t make it this time.

My parents seperated before I was born, they already had six kids at that point, stayed apart for two years, got back together and have been happily back together for 18 years.

btw, they have beautiful boys, they are going to be heartbreakers one day.

I truly hope they can make it work this time. They seems destined to be together.

Many people seem to forget that he got violent with her, was convicted for it and spent time in jail for it.

Their relationship doesn’t seem healthy and I agree with the people saying that their on/off relationship cannot be good for their children.

Amanda, while I don’t find Gemma’s comment anything to laugh about, I also don’t find this situation anything but “distasteful”. I know what it’s like to be in a home where the parents get together and separate, get together and separate. While we (my brother and I) loved to have our family back together again, it was a bad situation. They had no love for each other. Luckily, my mom got away from my dad for good when I was in 5th grade and it was so much better with them divorced.

I’m saddened for these children who are more than likely getting their hopes up. That being said, I really, really, really hope that they can stay together for good and give these boys some stability. I wouldn’t want anyone to go through what I went through.

I don’t know about these two. Yes they are back and forth but (except for the divorce), their splits are always amicable and they put the kids first. I have to give it up to them for always putting the kids first and doing their best to be friends even when they aren’t together.